I often see notices from outsourcing companies promising that they can make your social media burden light by doing the tasks you don’t want to.
These virtual teams promise to:
- Ghostwrite and post articles on your blog
- Find and approve friends for you on Facebook/LinkedIn
- Find and approve followers for you on Twitter
- And will do this anywhere from 4-10 times per month for a few hundred dollars.
Huh? When did outsourcing your relationships become okay?
Social Media Wears Prada (Didn’t You Know?)
In the movie The Devil Wears Prada, Anne Hathaway plays a naive entry level secretary by the name of Andy Sachs. Andy heads to New York after she’s hired to assist Miranda Priestly, the editor of a New York fashion magazine, who’s all bitch and little personality (played by Meryl Streep).
In one scene, Miranda drags Andy to a charity event. The reason Miranda needs Anne is because Miranda
can’t remember anyone’s name. So Andy has to walk 5 paces behind Miranda with a book that includes the names and faces of New York’s socialites. Every time Miranda shakes someone’s hand, there’s a 3 second pause as Andy quickly flips through her book and then whispers the person’s name in Miranda’s ear.
When you outsource your selection and maintenance of your social media relationships, I liken this to the book that Andy carries around. If you aren’t cultivating these relationships through Twitter, Facebook or LinkedIn on your own, how then will you know who to call on when you need them?
For example, if your assistant is the one approving and finding friends and posting things on Twitter on your behalf, you’re missing out on the friendly banter that happens between friends. My pal, Scott Stratten, is always spinning tunes and sharing his playlist on Twitter. If he plays your favorite song and you’re not there to tell him so, how can you expect to build rapport with him?
Now, you may say:
“Leesa, what does sharing music on Twitter have to do with boosting my business?”
Well, you know the old adage which is people do business with those they like and trust, right? People can only like you if they know your interests and hobbies. If you can’t share these things because you’ve outsourced this task to someone who only knows you because of the amount of money you’re paying them, you’re missing out on the rapport building activities that come with using social media.
Outsource Your Relationships for Just One Week (I Double Dare You)
To illustrate my point, try outsourcing your personal relationships for one week. Hire someone who will stand in for you at home, at church or on your sports team.
- When your husband says “Honey, come to bed,” tell him that your outsourced stand-in will join him so you can finish a proposal you’re working on.
- When your mom invites you over for dinner, tell her that you can’t but that you’re sending your outsourced stand-in to fill your spot.
- If you’re dating, tell the person that you’re going to send your outsourced stand-in to join you so you can take off early to go and watch Desparate Housewives.
- When you just don’t feel like being a mom, a dad, a sister, an aunt, a brother, a husband or a wife for a day, check your yellow pages for a service where you can outsource that role for a 24-hour period.
Not realisitic you say? Of course not! The whole idea is absolutely ridiculous. Which is why I see outsourcing the relationship building aspect on Twitter, Facebook and other social media tools to be a silly idea as well.
Outsource Your Business, Not Social Media
When I worked in corporate, there was one role I loved over all others – Business Development. The person in this role was never in the office. He was out golfing or attending a networking event or flying to a conference. He got paid to schmooze and I felt he had the coolest job in the world.
Social media to me is no longer a marketing or sales tools. Social media is my schmooze tool, a place where I build rapport by giving, sharing and helping. Just like I would never outsource the relationship building aspects of a date, I would never outsource the relationships I’m building on Twitter, Facebook, LinkedIn.
I recommend that you outsource the administrative tasks in your business that you absolutely loathe so it frees you up to use social media as a business building tool.
When someone on Twitter says they need to get off of Twitter for the rest of the day to work on a proposal or some sales letter or some other client work, I know they don’t have an assistant or a virtual team. Someone who does is freed up to use social media as often as they want without having to take “time off” of social media.
In my business, I now just show up for my training events, teach and inspire, then go home. All the planning before and after the event is done by my virtual team. I now have free time in my schedule to develop my business using relationship building tools both online and offline.
This can only happen once you outsource the right portions of your business.
Next Steps
Before you think about outsourcing your social media tasks, ask yourself the following questions:
- What administrative tasks in my business are more suitable for delegation?
- How can I free up more of my time so I can use social media on my own?
- Will delegating this particular social media task damage my ability to form a real connection with the person who’s trying to cultivate a relationship with me on ?
What Are Your Thoughts?
Leave your comments below with your thoughts on outsourcing social media tasks.
Update: At Podcamp Toronto over the weekend, I shared in Dave Fleet‘s session called Social Media Ethics that I saw nothing wrong with outsourcing your blog writing tasks to someone else. It sparked an interesting debate between myself, Dave Fleet and Danny Brown on Twitter (follow the tweets here).
I’m a true believer of delegating the tasks that you hate or are not good at, yet with social media, you need to be present to cultivate and build the relationships you’re forming.
Writing isn’t my most favorite thing to do in this world, but on the other hand, I love meeting and interacting with people on Twitter, Facebook and through my blog or video podcast.
Danny suggested that I invite guest bloggers to write for my blog instead of having someone post blog posts under my name (ghostblogging). That’s an interesting model, one I’ve never considered. What I have been thinking about is moving towards publishing more audio and video on my blog since I can whip those out in no time. It’s easier for me to do and it represents my voice better than just text alone.
Whatever I decide, one thing I’m sticking to is that relationship building cannot be outsourced. That was the point of this post. Interacting with people through my blog via the comments, on Twitter, through Facebook or on LinkedIn cannot be delegated. You have to be present and show up to build rapport with those who are following you.
Update: I’m co-hosting a teleclass on Thursday May 28, 2009 at 5pm EDT with Craig Cannings on the 5 social media tasks you can outsource and still be authentic. Craig opened my eyes on a few issues and I invite you to this free call so you can discover my a-ha moment in regards to this issue. You’ll be quite surprised. Click here to get more info on this call and to register your spot.









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